May 11, 2010 § Leave a comment
we can savor the pain as well as the pleasure. this is what i think that s & m play teaches us/allows us to see. the orgasm is referred to the little death for a reason.
if right now my muscles are tense, my mood is grumpy, the air is smoggy and icky, and aza is shrieking for no goddamn reason i can fathom. i can savor that pain. i dont have to hang on to it. i dont have to push it away. i dont have to do a damn thing. but savor it.
savoring is a chosen response to the moment.
not by ignoring the negative, the pain. but knowing that this too is life.